Even though we’re 2 ½ months into the new year, it’s never too late to retain focus on the New Years Resolution. How about having more (and better) sex?
Not only is it more fun then a traditional health-related resolutions, it develops a closer bond and makes intimacy new and exciting.
Sex burns many calories too so in a way it accomplishes double-duty with exercise related resolutions anyway.
Convinced? You should be! Here are 5 great ways to have a year of fabulous sex.
1. Leave the Bedroom.
It’s so easy to associate lovemaking with the bedroom. After all, that’s traditionally the area where all the action takes place. Try other rooms, like the kitchen counter or rocking chair. Furthermore, these places offer different possibilities of positioning making intercourse feel different. Try sitting on the counter while he stands on the floor or sitting in his lap on a rocking char. The back and forth movement of the chair matches your body’s motion completely enhancing the experience. Once you’ve accustomed yourself to these new areas, be more adventurous, why not try outside on the balcony or under a shady tree in a deserted park? The world is your sex playground!
2. Adult Playtoys
Many women associate a vibrator with solo playtime but there is a whole hearth of accessories designed specifically for couples. Try a vibrating ring for example, a soft device he wears that provides vibrations you’ll feel every time your bodies come close. The subtle addition has quite the impact and offers an entirety new tingle that always welcome. Browse together online at a store for couples like TheAdultToyShop.com where you can even ask the staff for some ideas and they’ll suggest things to get you started.
We’ve all seen a novel’s worth of foreplay tips and know how to set the scene for romance with candles, massages lotions and such. For an entirely new twist on passion, enjoy a quickie. Imagine this: You’re walking in the hall way going to put away some laundry in the closet. He’s coming out of the bedroom going to the kitchen to fix a snack. You meet and start kissing in the hallway, clothes come off quickly and a minute later you’re making love standing in the hallway. You knees buckle from the heat of the moment you two collapse to the ground. Your heart is beating so fast all of a sudden causing your whole body to feel tingly and excited. Once you’re done, your knees are still wobbly the entire time you’re folding laundry…
4. Read Erotica Novels
Riding on the back of 50 Shades of Grey popularity comes a flood of new erotica novels on the market. Reading a book describing a sexy love scene will bring your mind into a soothing serene sense complete with arousal and seduction. It’s no secret the mind is our most powerful tool when it comes to arousal and great sex so setting the scene in your head through a passionate story will get your internal juices flowing and prepare you for a passionate encounter. You’re already in the mood now sex will feel better since you’re already there! Don’t be overwhelmed when you walk into a book store, research erotica reviews first so you know what type of story best appeals to you.
Piggy backs on the previous tip. Read the novel and you’ve got a mind full of sexy shirtless studs waiting to carry you away to temptation island on horseback. The greatest part about fantasizing is you can imagine anyone you want. Following the suggestion where the mind is the most powerful arousal tool, imagine your lover is a superhero coming to save you and you’re the luckiest girl in the world as he choose you for his mistress! Every time you make love imagine a hot scene and each time will feel different.